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SageMother · 11-23-2007, 11:37 AM

There hasn't been enough time for you to adjust to the changes. I suggest you avoid thinking about when, and get on with the "how" part of your newly found direction.

Ether one of you could have called it quits in the past so nothing has actually changed in that arena. Focusing on those moments when things are going well is your best innoculation against the anxiety you are starting to build.

There will never be any guarantees, so it's best that you prepare as much as one can, for the uncertain future. This should ease your anxiety and free you to enjoy each moment as it comes.

11-23-2007, 11:37 AM	#3 (permalink)
SageMother Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 166	Re: how do we move forward There hasn't been enough time for you to adjust to the changes. I suggest you avoid thinking about when, and get on with the "how" part of your newly found direction. Ether one of you could have called it quits in the past so nothing has actually changed in that arena. Focusing on those moments when things are going well is your best innoculation against the anxiety you are starting to build. There will never be any guarantees, so it's best that you prepare as much as one can, for the uncertain future. This should ease your anxiety and free you to enjoy each moment as it comes.