Originally Posted by Catherine602
A hj or bj is not equivalent to full sexual contact where both partners are being fulfilled. It is easy to say the "if you love him you would_____" fill in the blank with what ever the latest thing that men now seem to require to feel loved. But what is happening is that the woman is required to demonstrate her love in a way a man is never asked to do. How many men would give their partners oral and not expect an orgasm themselves? It does not happen, but if you love her you would you do that? If not why is a woman expected to demonstrate her love by sex acts? Posted via Mobile Device
I didn't go into detail, but I always returned the favor with my hands or with oral; that is why we made it a main even. I can't explain it, but we didn't always need intercourse; we both loved hands. I think we enjoyed taking turns and bringing each other to orgasm.