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anx · 03-14-2011, 02:17 PM

I don't agree with your mom. People do change and need to change.

She's right its not a great idea to marry someone that you don't like their lifestyle, but did your husband spend every night in a bar before you were married?

"haveing a life" means really different things to different people. Marriage takes comprimise, and BOTH people need to be able to do it. This might means he get time in a bar and also you get time with him. You both have to give up something.

03-14-2011, 02:17 PM	#10 (permalink)
anx Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Posts: 1,084	Re: Still in Love or just scared to move on? I don't agree with your mom. People do change and need to change. She's right its not a great idea to marry someone that you don't like their lifestyle, but did your husband spend every night in a bar before you were married? "haveing a life" means really different things to different people. Marriage takes comprimise, and BOTH people need to be able to do it. This might means he get time in a bar and also you get time with him. You both have to give up something.