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I don't agree with your mom. People do change and need to change.
She's right its not a great idea to marry someone that you don't like their lifestyle, but did your husband spend every night in a bar before you were married?
"haveing a life" means really different things to different people. Marriage takes comprimise, and BOTH people need to be able to do it. This might means he get time in a bar and also you get time with him. You both have to give up something.