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Old 11-24-2007, 12:28 PM   #14 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by des3978 View Post
I don't know where to begin. I have been with my spouse for 9 years have a 5 year old daughter together and a child of our own from seperate relationships. I am currently 7 months pregnant with our second daughter. I get a call from a woman who claims to have been with him for 3 years and can't take the fact that she can't have him the way she would like. I have always had a feeling he was cheating but never had any solid proof to acuse him, but always came real close a few times.I played my own private investigator but then would give up because it was wasted energy and he would always finagle his way out of it anyway. He calaims he had an issue with this girl and that was all it was and that she is trying to hurt him in everyway possible. Her first attempt was to have him lose his job and that failed. She then threatened him with telling me he said that was the last thing he wanted her to do but she kept it over his head for too long that he finally told her to do what you have to do and so she did and threw in a few extras. I was enraged and he was already preparing himself to leave before I came in the door. He claims to love me and never jeopardize what we have. I don't know what to believe anymore. Could the story be true or is this another attempt to cover up and keep me under his wing.
It just might be that he is telling the truth. However, at the point of doubt he needs his life to be transparent as a way to prove he is indeed innocent.

Does he work regular hours? Does his paycheck match the hours he works? When he says he stopped by a store does he come home with stuff? Does he go out with people you do not know?

Does he have secret emails that you have no access too? Does he answer the phone in a way that you do not know who he is talking to?

The best thing I'd say to do is offer him trust but ask that he lives transparent.

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