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Originally Posted by sprite
Any suggestions on how to get rid of that mentality?
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Your mentality is fundamentally sound. Why would you want to get rid of it?
What you need to do is decide if your husband, the way he is now,
can be trusted. As for if he can
continue to be trusted... The truth is, you probably need to be vigilant.
But let's be honest here. Most people deserve each other. Are you better than him? If you are, I suggest you move on and find your equal. If not... Then forgive him, and move on, within your marriage.
He may have supplied the bricks in the past, but you cemented them in place. Have a heart, and forgive him. He can do no more than he is doing, as far as I can tell from your words.