Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - Should I be happy or is she just trying to be nice

eagleclaw · 03-15-2011, 08:55 AM

if you want to reconcile that is fine - but yes, I think you have to show strength and wait for her to come to you, and for her to convice you WHY you should put your faith in her and HOW she is going to enrich your life.

Because, if you don't do that - and you make it too easy for her you loose any respect that she has gained for you and she will realize that no matter what she does, or no matter what she says, or no matter how long she leaves you will be a doormat and take her back at a moments notice.

That is not a message you want to convey to her at his point. She needs to bring her A-game and woo you now.

03-15-2011, 08:55 AM	#62 (permalink)
eagleclaw Member Join Date: Sep 2010 Posts: 395	Re: Should I be happy or is she just trying to be nice if you want to reconcile that is fine - but yes, I think you have to show strength and wait for her to come to you, and for her to convice you WHY you should put your faith in her and HOW she is going to enrich your life. Because, if you don't do that - and you make it too easy for her you loose any respect that she has gained for you and she will realize that no matter what she does, or no matter what she says, or no matter how long she leaves you will be a doormat and take her back at a moments notice. That is not a message you want to convey to her at his point. She needs to bring her A-game and woo you now.