| | Re: This is killing me
The "not in love" thing stems from her opinion that I do not make her feel special enough. Not that I am a saint...I'm not. I think that I fell into a trap of playing the role of husband, i.e., I worked hard, listened to her when something was bothering her, was a good father. She is looking for the small things that make her happy. But I think she is looking for "fireworks." She mentions this all the time.
Everybody wants the fairy tale, you know? But I can't take us back to our second date where we had the anticipation of seeing each other again complete with butterflies in our stomachs. She wants that, she wants to be made to feel that way. That's probably the reason for this other guy, right now she is excited when she talks to him, at least that is my guess.
Hope that helps explain it a little better.