AniversaryFight

I agree with MsLonely and Syrum.

You are married to your husband, sex is very important to a marriage (that is why you married a man not a female friend), you are now not attracted to him, you do not want to have sex with him, you have taken part of your marriage from him, he is frustrated, he loves you.

He is watching porn but he finds that you are more attractive that those women out there. Since you are having problems with your relationship, he is scared to tell you about his fantasies and that is why he had to do it secretely. He should man up and tell you his fantasy thou...

You both arel lack of communication. Tell him to do what he used to do when you were attrated to him at the beginning. Tell him the truth of what you feel is attreactive for you, help him to achieve being that guy and be patient. Discussed about both of your fantasies and fullfill each others. Some people take sexy photos of their wives and they both enjoy. (some female find it very sexy to have a home made sexy photos). If he feels that you are good listener and you care about solving your problems he will open up to you more...just same as when a man is a good listener to a woman. He is now just scared to mess things up and probably getting once in a yead LOL

By the way this guy is very patient. I can not live with someone giving me sex once in a month. I will discuss and if nothing happens...phey, divorce. Or else cheat and not feel sorry about it.

Save your marriage, solve your problems and have much sex. Goodluck!