Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - guys night out-overreacting?

mostlysunny · 03-18-2011, 10:21 AM

Obviously been thinking about this a lot the last few days and doing some self evaluation. Not always a comfortable thing! I think I am letting the past color today. It used to be a common occurance for me to not know where he was, for him to come home late or not come home at all...so there is some history here.... But right now I am assigning other motivations in my mind & at this point it is nothing other than him going out, having a good time and crashing at a friends. So easy to say you have put something behind you when your trust is never tested! So spoke with H yesterday and told him I had been thinking about our conversation, that basically it comes down to me trusting him & he has not given me any reason not to, encouraged him to go and have a good time. Then I dropped it and have not brought it up since. So we'll see.

03-18-2011, 10:21 AM	#11 (permalink)
mostlysunny Registered User Join Date: Mar 2011 Posts: 3	Re: guys night out-overreacting? Obviously been thinking about this a lot the last few days and doing some self evaluation. Not always a comfortable thing! I think I am letting the past color today. It used to be a common occurance for me to not know where he was, for him to come home late or not come home at all...so there is some history here.... But right now I am assigning other motivations in my mind & at this point it is nothing other than him going out, having a good time and crashing at a friends. So easy to say you have put something behind you when your trust is never tested! So spoke with H yesterday and told him I had been thinking about our conversation, that basically it comes down to me trusting him & he has not given me any reason not to, encouraged him to go and have a good time. Then I dropped it and have not brought it up since. So we'll see.