 Re: How do I ask him?
Insist on MC and testing for STD's. Tell him you've been notified by others that his absence wasn't innocent. You need to understand why he felt the need to leave. Needs weren't being met and you want to be a better wife and meet those needs, so let's learn how in marriage counseling. You are right to be suspicious. Husbands don't just up and disappear for no reason.
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