just trying to get to know you all better and to see how similar our situations are.
wondering how long it's been since you sep. or divorced the rel. ended? how many of you have dated since then? how long did it take before you did date? even just hang out with the opposite sex for a night out, not necessarily dating for a relationship or sex

also wondering who was the one that started the sep., was it you or your ex? i wonder if it makes a diff. in moving on sooner or not. just curious.