| | Re: Wife has depression... need help!
I have a problem in expressing my feelings and closing up when she wanted to talk about the depression and many other things. There have been times I stayed home to watch the kido and she goes out for girl night or whatever. It kills me to think back that she asked me to go too and we could of had a baby sitter so I could go. I thought I was doing the right thing by giving her a little freedom or break from the mother/wife role that I thought was the cause of her depression. It kills me to know that I was doing the wrong thing and now things are worse and are becoming more hopeless. I have hope and faith that we can reconnect and that she will come out of this depression. It is hard to hear her say the opposite and that a seperation may be in our future. I want so badly for her to fight and hope for things to get better as much as I am.