| | Re: how long has it been?
He told me he wanted to leave January 17, he said he needed time to get his head together. This was after he disappeared for the weekend (turns out the other woman was also away that weekend so guess where my husband was & what he was doing). He moved out on the 22nd.
We were going to MC, he was seeing an IC. I discovered a valentines card in his truck from the other woman on March 10 on the way to FL for his brothers wedding. I never thought he would cheat as he always said cheaters were the scum of the earth (funny how many of them said that & then did exactly that huh?), UNtil then I just thought he was depressed or had something else going on. But an affair, damn that w@nker. He swore it was over & only lasted a few weeks, they never had sex, just kissed. Even though I found hotel receipts on his email & a few emails back & forth between them before he grabbed his phone off me. I got in touch with her husband too so hopefully it is well & truly blown up. But they work together so who knows.
I have no intention of dating anytime in the next few years. Its going to be all bout me & my kids.