Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - I want second child but my husband wants money

Hicks · 03-21-2011, 08:37 AM

Unless your marriage is strong, you should not have another child. It's not fair to bring a child into a weak marriage.

Your husband is giving you and your child a great gift. This is priceless.

Both of you need to grow toward each other and start showing some positive appreciation and love. The recommendation I have is to show him love, respect and appreciation for what he is doing. In 2-3 months, introduce the concept of what you need (what you want him to do). He's more likely to be open to changing when he is getting his need for respect and appreciation met.

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Hicks Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Posts: 1,716	Re: I want second child but my husband wants money Unless your marriage is strong, you should not have another child. It's not fair to bring a child into a weak marriage. Your husband is giving you and your child a great gift. This is priceless. Both of you need to grow toward each other and start showing some positive appreciation and love. The recommendation I have is to show him love, respect and appreciation for what he is doing. In 2-3 months, introduce the concept of what you need (what you want him to do). He's more likely to be open to changing when he is getting his need for respect and appreciation met.