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oceanbreeze · 11-28-2007, 02:12 AM

hi,

sounds like your wife is a bit depressed. she has invested much into the kids that she may not know how to be with you and vice versa. plus the kids are getting ready to leave the house (college, work/trade) and this may be difficult for her to get used to.

try conditioning your wife. instead of wanting to hold her, kiss, smell and more, take her hand and kiss it like a lady. research your local opera/symphony stadiums and find out if the nutcracker ballet is playing in your area. stroke her hair and tell her "i love you" and then walk away. of course this will leave her dumbfounded but hopefully rethinking that you did not intentionally touch her to make-love. try to get her into a hobby that she always wanted to do and try to go along with her. then over time (like 3 months or so) IF she says so she may want to do it on her own and her own thing. but when she comes home act interested on what she did.

finding your wife something to do and invest into her own happiness along with you by her side may be the thing she needs. discuss this and about doing activities together.

also, congratulations on the job!

11-28-2007, 02:12 AM	#7 (permalink)
oceanbreeze Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 71	Re: Wife wants to leave me!! HELP!! hi, sounds like your wife is a bit depressed. she has invested much into the kids that she may not know how to be with you and vice versa. plus the kids are getting ready to leave the house (college, work/trade) and this may be difficult for her to get used to. try conditioning your wife. instead of wanting to hold her, kiss, smell and more, take her hand and kiss it like a lady. research your local opera/symphony stadiums and find out if the nutcracker ballet is playing in your area. stroke her hair and tell her "i love you" and then walk away. of course this will leave her dumbfounded but hopefully rethinking that you did not intentionally touch her to make-love. try to get her into a hobby that she always wanted to do and try to go along with her. then over time (like 3 months or so) IF she says so she may want to do it on her own and her own thing. but when she comes home act interested on what she did. finding your wife something to do and invest into her own happiness along with you by her side may be the thing she needs. discuss this and about doing activities together. also, congratulations on the job!