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Jellybeans · 03-22-2011, 11:02 AM

I guess just wait for her response now.
Listen up: you need to be calm right now, whatever her answer is. Exude confidence and ascribe to the thinking that no matter how this ends, you will prevail, got it?

She need sto see a man who she respected. I really like that you told her you will respect her decision. Good for you. That means you aren't pushing her or dictating to her how things will go.

When she gets back to you, keep your emotions out of it and listen and validate what she says.

Did you email her that?

If she is having an affair, it's a lot harder to deal with the situation. What has made you think she "may" be having one. Elaborate.

03-22-2011, 11:02 AM	#4 (permalink)
Jellybeans Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Posts: 11,708	Re: Old question Separation or divorce? I guess just wait for her response now. Listen up: you need to be calm right now, whatever her answer is. Exude confidence and ascribe to the thinking that no matter how this ends, you will prevail, got it? She need sto see a man who she respected. I really like that you told her you will respect her decision. Good for you. That means you aren't pushing her or dictating to her how things will go. When she gets back to you, keep your emotions out of it and listen and validate what she says. Did you email her that? If she is having an affair, it's a lot harder to deal with the situation. What has made you think she "may" be having one. Elaborate.