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Wats · 11-29-2007, 11:53 AM

Thanks for the encouraging words. I don't plan on giving up. I read the book "The Five Love Languages" and found my wifes language is 'acts of sevice' and I have been changing over the past 2-3 years and intend to be the man she wants me to be. She definitely has her mind made up to leave me but she can't right now because she doesn't have a job. She has asked that I basically stay away from her and give her space but she will talk with me if I don't bring up her leaving. I feel certain as of now that when she gets her feet she will move out. She has agreed to go to the first session of counseling but says it's only to help me get through this. She has been telling me for years she was unhappy and I just didn't hear it. I would just brush it off and it would subside for a while then it was back again. I know I haven't been the husband she hoped for but I am making some major changes in my life and pray she is seeing.

Libra, did you feel you didn't love your husband anymore when you moved out?

11-29-2007, 11:53 AM	#10 (permalink)
Wats Registered User Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 15	Re: Wife wants to leave me!! HELP!! Thanks for the encouraging words. I don't plan on giving up. I read the book "The Five Love Languages" and found my wifes language is 'acts of sevice' and I have been changing over the past 2-3 years and intend to be the man she wants me to be. She definitely has her mind made up to leave me but she can't right now because she doesn't have a job. She has asked that I basically stay away from her and give her space but she will talk with me if I don't bring up her leaving. I feel certain as of now that when she gets her feet she will move out. She has agreed to go to the first session of counseling but says it's only to help me get through this. She has been telling me for years she was unhappy and I just didn't hear it. I would just brush it off and it would subside for a while then it was back again. I know I haven't been the husband she hoped for but I am making some major changes in my life and pray she is seeing. Libra, did you feel you didn't love your husband anymore when you moved out?