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evenow · 11-29-2007, 09:35 PM

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Thanks for the people that replied. I talked to my husband about the situation. We had agreed months ago to stay home this year (back when we had our own place) but as I thought he had forgotten and accepted the trip. It was my fault for not reminding him.

He's going to buy a small tree and we'll decorate it together before we leave.

And I won't allow myself to be negative on the trip.

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This Christmas I'm spending my entire Christmas and New Years with my in-laws on a long drive across country to a major resort. As a married couple with no children we've really spent the holidays split between our two families for years and frankly I'm tired of it. I'd like to stay home one year. Have our own tree and our own celebration.

And not be made feel guilty for it. UGH.

11-29-2007, 09:35 PM	#1 (permalink)
evenow Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 137	Update: Dreading the holidays Update------------------------------------------------------ Thanks for the people that replied. I talked to my husband about the situation. We had agreed months ago to stay home this year (back when we had our own place) but as I thought he had forgotten and accepted the trip. It was my fault for not reminding him. He's going to buy a small tree and we'll decorate it together before we leave. And I won't allow myself to be negative on the trip. ------------------------------------------------------------- This Christmas I'm spending my entire Christmas and New Years with my in-laws on a long drive across country to a major resort. As a married couple with no children we've really spent the holidays split between our two families for years and frankly I'm tired of it. I'd like to stay home one year. Have our own tree and our own celebration. And not be made feel guilty for it. UGH. Last edited by evenow; 12-06-2007 at 08:04 PM.