Wats

She's told me that she is tired of feeling like the only adult in the relationship. We seem to get deeper and deeper in debt and she feels like it's all my fault. She hasn't held a regular job since we've been married for very long....maybe two years max. She feels that I don't respect her and disregard her feelings and that was true a few years ago but I really have changed. She feels I can't support my family and I continue to spend with no care but for myself. I see my wrongs and I'm making changes. I'm selling the unnecessary things and getting back to basics. I'm getting a second job to make things work and repairing and doing things around the house because I've made the choice to love her and she is why I'm doing these things. I want to be the man she wants me to be. I want to be the man she needs. I'm a gentle spirit and love my children, I don't have anger issues, I don't think I'm bad to look at..hahaha! I'm 40 years old and in good shape physically. I just need to show her that I realize my mistakes and I am changing things. I will not pressure her any longer about staying but I will let her know I do love her and regardless of the outcome I am a changed man.