So I have made this thread, so we can come and keep record of our contact, report when we backslide.. get advice from one another... and even the occasional spanking! If we feel like contacting... we can come here.. if we think there should be something we need to tell/ask our spouse come here first and see if it's important enough.. I for one 'find' reasons to text my H..
This is like an AA meeting for contact addicts!
So I'll start, my last back backslide was Wednesday 23rd when I told him about a song I heard on the radio

We've texted since, but no R talk, talked about access to the kids, and something our son did. I was very light hearted when I spoke to him on the phone, last night when I said bye, he said (quietly) have a great night.. this shocked me a bit and I just said you too bye...ARGH I miss the f*ckwit!