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Old 11-30-2007, 11:17 PM   #8 (permalink)
evenow
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Default Re: Dreading the holidays

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Originally Posted by draconis View Post
WHile that might be the case I never saw marriage as a thing to win but rather a journey. To him it might be an excuse to see his family he misses or a tradition he has engrained in him. Either way I wish you the happiness you seek.

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"Win" was a poorly chosen word, but I will own it.

He does love his family, they are all very close and I have never kept him from them. On the other hand my family is scattered to the four winds and I'm not used the amount of interaction he is. I wish it didn't feel like it was an either/or type of situation, like I was forcing him to choose between seeing his family and being a hermit.

Thanks draconis.
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