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friendly · 03-28-2011, 04:36 AM

I feel it sound unreasonable to kick away all the friends after married when non of them are friends with benefit.
My husband can keep his friends and chat to them once in a while as long as he knows where the limit is. Why can't I have a friend who I like to keep for life and say "Hi" to him also once in a while. The OM and me are both committed to our own relationships. He likes his gf very much and I'm devoted to my marriage. We clearly know there's no future for us and it's not possible for us to cheat but just a friendship to keep alive.
I feel it brings no harms as long as things are done within the boundaries: we don't discuss any inappropriate topics. We don't meet each other, either.
So why pure friendship is considered as Ea here in this forum?

03-28-2011, 04:36 AM	#7 (permalink)
friendly Banned Join Date: Sep 2010 Posts: 266	Re: Can I keep the other man as a friend only for chat? I feel it sound unreasonable to kick away all the friends after married when non of them are friends with benefit. My husband can keep his friends and chat to them once in a while as long as he knows where the limit is. Why can't I have a friend who I like to keep for life and say "Hi" to him also once in a while. The OM and me are both committed to our own relationships. He likes his gf very much and I'm devoted to my marriage. We clearly know there's no future for us and it's not possible for us to cheat but just a friendship to keep alive. I feel it brings no harms as long as things are done within the boundaries: we don't discuss any inappropriate topics. We don't meet each other, either. So why pure friendship is considered as Ea here in this forum? Last edited by friendly; 03-28-2011 at 04:42 AM.