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Old 03-28-2011, 07:47 PM   #1 (permalink)
ladyybyrd
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Default Ignorance is bliss!

I sent my husband a link for the marriage builders website today. I asked him to read it. He calls me and asked me what he should read on the site, because he doesn't know what he is doing wrong. Well since he obviously doesn't know what he he is doing wrong he hasn't been listening to anything i have said in the last year and a half. He would know what the issues are if he would LISTEN to what I have to say. He doesn't think anything is wrong.

I feel like his roommate, his house keeper, his live in baby sitter and his personal cook. Not his wife. We don't have the passion anymore, it left years ago. We have sex maybe once every other month and it is only when he sees fit.

I am emotionally disconnected from him, due to him not meeting any my needs. I have given up completely, but walking away from him is hard. We have been together 15 years, married almost 14. I have tried to be a good wife to him and I believe that I have been. I just don't get how he doesn't know what the problem is??
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