My sex life has improved just in the past month or two since I started posting/reading here and at MarriedManSexLife.
I changed me. I changed my perception of sex. I took control and responsibility for what I wanted our sex life to be and started creating it. My husband was of course eager and happy to be part of the change.
He started responding in ways that I needed (more sexually aggressive and playful). It has been great.
Now if I could just get the rest of our issues worked out as easily. LOL