For me it started when I quit being a nag, a debbie downer, unhappy and so darn unapproachable. That was the start of things getting better. Went from sex every couple of months to a couple times a week. Then I started working on myself. Lost weight with diet and exercise. Got new clothes, new hairstyle, started wearing heels even though I'm a homemaker, etc. That made ME happy which in turn led to more sex. Now we are at 2-4 times a week.
I'm here because I want to take it to another level and because I need help with MY insecurities. Instead of 2-4 times of missionary or me on top sex I want steamy, hot, mind blowing, multiple positions, sex.
