| | Re: Help! Desperately need advice!
There's hope for any marriage but it takes two to fix and he doesn't seem to be there yet. You need to flush him out.
If all the money has gone then stay firm in your house and follow the advice of Affaircare and the ultimatium her or me approach.
Don't be accommodating his affair. Shock and Awe treatment is necessary to force home the reality of being away from wife and family.
Best of luck. There's so many people everyday discovering cheating partners something legal needs to be done to curtail it.