I am married, been married 15 years, i have kids with my husband also... my issue...
I am no longer in love, so why is it so hard for me to move on? My husband is not a bad person he is a great father but we are just 2 different people ad i am not feeling it mentally or physically anymore. We dont have sex cause i always have an excuse, I am no longer physically attracted to him. Anyone on the outside looking in thinks my marriage is GREAT, but deep down I am miserable, i mean almost physically sick miserable. I cant understand these feelings because again...he really isnt a bad guy. I have fallen out of love with him. WHAT TO DO? I think my main reason for being here is my kids, maybe money (2paychecks are better than 1) At one time i sorta told him how i feel and he agreead to a short seperation after the holiday, his first thought was that there was another man, there is not another person. The seperation never happened, i dont know why. I think at that time he was getting the house painted, bathrom redone, things that i look back at and feel may have been a distraction to avoid the seperation. Anyway... let me not drag on, please send advice
Please give me your honest advice
I am no longer in love, so why is it so hard for me to move on? My husband is not a bad person he is a great father but we are just 2 different people ad i am not feeling it mentally or physically anymore. We dont have sex cause i always have an excuse, I am no longer physically attracted to him. Anyone on the outside looking in thinks my marriage is GREAT, but deep down I am miserable, i mean almost physically sick miserable. I cant understand these feelings because again...he really isnt a bad guy. I have fallen out of love with him. WHAT TO DO? I think my main reason for being here is my kids, maybe money (2paychecks are better than 1) At one time i sorta told him how i feel and he agreead to a short seperation after the holiday, his first thought was that there was another man, there is not another person. The seperation never happened, i dont know why. I think at that time he was getting the house painted, bathrom redone, things that i look back at and feel may have been a distraction to avoid the seperation. Anyway... let me not drag on, please send advice
Please give me your honest advice