Originally Posted by zoku32
I would probably say 6 times out of 10. I guess thats more than half the time. As you can tell it takes away from the excitement of sex because while he's putting the moves on me I'm thinking...oh man, is this going to take forever or is he not even going to be able to finish....it almost creates some anxiety when he starts to touch me
You just uttered the words that I wondered if my ex was thinking and feeling.
We ended up sexless and divorced.
I'm going to make the optimistic assumption that you would like to avoid that outcome. If so, the two of you need to be talking about it more and looking for ways that you can both be happy and satisfied with the circumstances, regardless of who is or isn't getting off.