| | Re: My 69 years old husband cheat on me with a 17 years old
I'm so sorry to hear what you are going through.
You should definitely consult a lawyer - he can't just go start his life over and leave you with all the bills! If a lawyer is too expensive, you can look into mediation, which I understand is more affordable.
Do you work/have your own income? Or has he been the breadwinner the entire marriage? Alimony may come into play as well.
The idea of a man his age with a girl that young - even if they didn't actually have sex - is creepy and totally inappropriate. As hurtful as it may be, it sounds as though you may be better off without him.
I wish you the best.