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justean · 12-04-2008, 03:23 PM

[QUOTE=4EverHope;29016]hi justean,
i have 1 friend that i go out with and he has issues with that. when i get too dressed up, he questions where i am going, who's going to be there. it's crazy

HE DOES THIS FOR HIS OWN GUILT AND INSECURITIES.
HES ACTUALLY KEEPING YOU UNDER THE THUMB, TO KEEP YOU UNDER CONTROL.
my ex did the same and constantly questioned me , why because he ws at it all the time.

he wanted the stay at home wife for the security and the cooked meals and the home warmth, that homes can provide and the crumpet on the side for the bit of fun.
i was so pleased when he was out of my life.

HE WONT SURVIVE WITHOUT YOU, BECAUSE HE NEEDS YOUR STABILITY TO STAND ON TWO FEET, WITHOUT YOUR SUPPORT HE IS WEAK. CANT MANAGE HIMSELF.
BUT YOUR BETTER THAN THAT. YOU ALWAYS HAVE BEEN.

12-04-2008, 03:23 PM	#14 (permalink)
justean Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: south wales. uk Posts: 1,250	Re: Lost and Lonely [QUOTE=4EverHope;29016]hi justean, i have 1 friend that i go out with and he has issues with that. when i get too dressed up, he questions where i am going, who's going to be there. it's crazy HE DOES THIS FOR HIS OWN GUILT AND INSECURITIES. HES ACTUALLY KEEPING YOU UNDER THE THUMB, TO KEEP YOU UNDER CONTROL. my ex did the same and constantly questioned me , why because he ws at it all the time. he wanted the stay at home wife for the security and the cooked meals and the home warmth, that homes can provide and the crumpet on the side for the bit of fun. i was so pleased when he was out of my life. HE WONT SURVIVE WITHOUT YOU, BECAUSE HE NEEDS YOUR STABILITY TO STAND ON TWO FEET, WITHOUT YOUR SUPPORT HE IS WEAK. CANT MANAGE HIMSELF. BUT YOUR BETTER THAN THAT. YOU ALWAYS HAVE BEEN.