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SageMother · 12-03-2007, 02:18 PM

No one is to blame here, and since neither of you remembered the anniversary,. there's no harm in planning another evening together to make up for it.

I don't want to sound too harsh but is there another reason that this struck you so hard? It sounds as if you expected him to hold the anniversary in a sacred spot where you hadn't placed it yourself.

I suggest that you start putting things on the calender. When he asks to do something again you can refer him to the calender and that should go a long way toward preventing such devastating forgetfulness for both of you.

12-03-2007, 02:18 PM	#9 (permalink)
SageMother Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 166	Re: 10th Anniversary Wasted No one is to blame here, and since neither of you remembered the anniversary,. there's no harm in planning another evening together to make up for it. I don't want to sound too harsh but is there another reason that this struck you so hard? It sounds as if you expected him to hold the anniversary in a sacred spot where you hadn't placed it yourself. I suggest that you start putting things on the calender. When he asks to do something again you can refer him to the calender and that should go a long way toward preventing such devastating forgetfulness for both of you.