Wats

Thank you all for the encouraging words and prayer.

I have some additional information I'd like to share with you that came about over the weekend. I found a letter from a guy friend of hers and it was basically a letter telling her he had always loved her and wanted to move back to our state to be with her. She went to school with this guy and they were friends but she hasn't spoken to him in years and years. She told him she was leaving me before she told me. she is on the phone a lot with him and also on the internet chat with him. This guy has been married before and is now engaged to another woman but since my wife told him she was leaving me he has been making advances on her. She told me he wasn't showing interest in her and I found this letter and it all broke loose. She want to a class reunion dinner and he was there. This was a couple of weeks ago and he walked her to her car and kissed her. She told me this. I know he is not why she is leaving me but she refuses to admit she is having an emotional affair with this guy. She keeps telling me there is nothing left between us and this guy making advances is not helping our situation. Any advice?