Originally Posted by Trenton
I don't care if others find them sexy/dowdy or not, I like expressing who and what I am/feel through fashion. It's like the chance for walking art. Some will like what I look like while others will think I'm a red neck dork (haha).
JEEZ ... I liked the dress! I liked it!
I've always had a 'thing' about violence, and specifically sexual violence against women or children. I don't like it, and I don't have much use for those who perpetrate it. I do believe that the scope of that issue can be difficult for some to get their head around unless they have looked into some very dark corners of the human experience where upstanding folk just don't look ... and can't possibly know how bad it is or how deep it runs.
I write occasionally. I have done research on war crimes, serial killers, and predators.
That said, there comes a point where we have to accept some self-evident truths about our sexuality. Specifically ... we are sexual. I very much appreciate the female form. There are few things that can hold a man's rapt attention more steadfastly. But ... that certainly doesn't mean that I feel compelled or entitled to paw at or grope at a woman.
I hope you work through your stuff, surfergirl ... sincerely.