New relationship help needed
Hey everyone,
Here's a summary of my relationship situation. I have a gf that i have been dating for about 7 weeks now. We met and were instantly attracted to each other and had an intense, passionate, emotional and very deep relationship since then. We commited ourselves to each other and were behaving like we were practically married. She met my family, we got dog tags with our names inscribed forever in love. Bottom line, we lived a lifetime's married couple relationship in just 7 wks. I know it sounds impossible or strange but it def felt like that for us both.
However, here comes the problem. Once out of those 7 wks, i cheated on her with an ex that i knew. It was a one time single act of my selfishness and it has ruined the best thing i ever had. She has forgiven me and after a lot of difficult hard persuasion has decided to give me one final chance. But she's very hurt and is withdrawn..emotionally and physically. We have talked about it and decided not to take time apart but work thru this issue.
I am trying to understand what things i can do now to make things better. I have promised her (& myself) that i will always be faithful. Although its been a short time, but we love each other and genuinely want to see this storm thru. What can i do to improve things and heal the pain i put her thru?
Any help will be greatly appreciated.
Thanks
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