Originally Posted by snowy13
I don't know what their plan is - I am pretty sure he left her which scares me even more that she will try to go after my H. I have tried telling my H I don't know how to feel about this and don't know if I can handle being with him if this child is his... he doesn't talk to me about it, he just throws it back at me saying "then what's the point, why are you with me now, just go then."
I honestly do not understand why a woman would actually hesitate about leaving a man who has cheated hurt an humiliated you and shows that he cares so little about you that he tells you to take it or leave it. I am going to be blunt - so you have a man who eeefff a women, gets her pregnant, sees the how pained his wife is and humiliates and beats her down more by refusing to talk about it and invites her to leave her own house and she does not throw him out. .
I am astounded- please don't say you love him, if he does not care if you stay or go then love is not enough. Where is you self respect, don't you have one ounce of self esteem? This man does not even like you. I don't want to cause you more pain but to wake you up. Women get themselves into these situations and then 10 yrs latter when she has 3 kids and he is on his 5 affair she regrets her decision to stay. He can not possibly be worth this.
You stand the chance of paying for his stupidity and taking care of the child and you hesitate. I don't understand. Please take you dignity and throw him out take half of the asset and call your self lucky. If you stay, plan on a life of pain, degradation, STDs, and maybe taking care of a few more of his kids.
Of corse you can get out and thank you luck that you are not stuck with this tool. This woman and your husband diserve each other, while you are in a healthy relationship you can watch them cheat on each other and fight various firms of STDs. After a year or two with the OW he will regret giving you up for his miserable life.
GET OUT OF THIS YOU DON'T BELONG WITH THIS MAN. Posted via Mobile Device