Originally Posted by Conrad
You really think "men" don't like talking about how they feel?
Do you ever read my posts?
And if women don't get an emotional connection they are very likely to be unhappy. I have an emotional connection to my friends, but it is not the same as the deep emotional attachment I have for my fiance. I do need to know how much I mean to him, I do need to talk about our relationship and our love to feel fullfilled within our relationship.
You may well be bringing it up quite a lot because you feel starved for it and are desperately missing it.
I wonder of most of the men here would be happy and content for a wife to do the same with sex, - "I just don't need it often to feel content, I prefer to be by myself" and so on. This is not meeting each others need for intimacy.
He needs to find a way to communicate with you and let you know how much you mean to him or I think your relationship will be in trouble.