Originally Posted by ladyybyrd
My husband still hasn't come around though. I am trying to figure out how to get back what we have lost, if that is even possible. My H is my soul mate.
Soul mate? Aren't 'soul mates' able to satisfy our most important emotional needs better than anyone else?
Why not inform your H that you have been considering filing for divorce and see what his reaction is? If he cares for you, he will stop and drop everything just to listen so as not to push you further into filing, but if he ignores you then you pretty much have your answer as to where you stand in his life.
I wish you luck.