04-08-2011, 05:12 AM
Join Date: Aug 2010
| | Re: Husband says I exhaust him when I want to talk about feelings
Originally Posted by nala21
Just for ccontext, we have great conversations about politics, business, kids, world events, literature, history, etc. We have no problems there. We are great friends. But I don't want just a platonic husband-friend. I need a man who can at a moment, look at me with desire and then satisfy his desire. A man who after I say "you are the most incredible man i've ever known" to say something along that line back to me. I don't let him leave the house without me telling him how sexy/hot he looks. I like to kiss him passionately out of the blue. I like to pleasure him sexually. I cook him meals from scratch because he LOVES food (i make my own tortillas, ground meat, fresh pasta, etc). I know I am not perfect. But to me, I treat him as though he is perfect. I just want 1/10 of it reciprocated back to me on an intimate level. Not as my platonic husband-friend.
Sounds like you're smothering him.
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