Originally Posted by Trooper
Well I do need to file for divorce, he has basically spent all the money I had any access to and has cash stashed away where I cannot access it. My therapist advised me to have 911 on speed dial and to have a safe place to go to and I have that, but I do need to see a divorce attorney so I can freeze the assets because he is the type who will clean out everything if he senses what is going on. I just cannot allow him to make me pennyless, I bought this house on my own and have always paid the mortgage, taxes, etc. - he never paid for any of it and I will not lose what little I have left to a jerk like him. I just need to be very secretive about my actions until the order is filed.
Thanks to everyone for all your advice, it has really been very helpful. I just don't understand why someone like this would refuse to get help, but I guess if he doesn't think he's sick he doesn't see any reason to get help. It's just so frustrating that everyone else can see it but he can't.
My mom used to always say that the crazy ones don't know they're crazy. Only sane people worry about losing their mind...