Originally Posted by Catherine602
I read of so many men who are deeply dissatisfied because their partner does not like to have semen in the mouth that I thought it was important. The men don't seem to say anything so I have a feeling that even if he understood it would bother him on some level. I'll will talk to him with the aim of finding out how important it is before I say I am having a problem.
Give yourself a pat on the back for coming this far.
I would think your husband would want you come to him with this IF/when it gets too much, and you are dreading the experience. Not that you have to open up about that just yet though! Do open the sexual lines of communicaton to gauge how important these things are to him though , also throw in your feelings about what you might want to try - maybe ending more sessions in another position for you both to enjoy.
From all you have said about him, he will be more than happy to accompany your wishes if this becomes a problem for you. I am sure he desires your pleasure as well in all of these things.
Sex is one of these things , I think the act itself is LESS important than feeling your partner wants to be there with you, doing it. Without a talk soon, he may pick up on it too-it is not something we can hide for very long. Is there anything more "intimate" in life ?
I love doing it- but 95% of the time, we finish in another position. My husband only gets about 1 or 2 finishes a month & that is when I am out for the count. Swallowig means nothnig to him. Keep a handy wipe near by. I just get up & spit. He is just laying here in ecstasy, he could care less.
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