Halien

My wife just couldn't get to that point, and when I realized how hard she was trying, I told her to avoid it. That's my point. Most guys would be incredibly appreciative of you trying, but it doesn't have to be swallowed. I'll have to admit, though, that when she loses herself, she'll still do it, but its completely her call.

Of course, it seems very easy for her to divert my attention elsewhere... She knows the right words and gestures to make it natural to shift to something else. I mean, a lot of us like to finish more aggressively when those triggers are awakened.