Originally Posted by JermainB20

Hello to everyone on this forum.
I have been married for a little over six years, had 1 child but my marriage is in trouble. Just a brief description of the problem:

Since last year I notice my wife was constantly communicating with a "Pastor" on her Job. I thought it was way too frequent for anyone to be talking to a "pastor" that much. By frequent I mean sometimes 8 calls a day along with hundreds of text messages per month. To me that was a very unhealthy counseling. I spoke to my wife on several occassions and I even called the "pastor" and ask him not to call my wife. To add to that, the "pastor" never once tell her to bring her husband in so we could all have a discussion. This went on for quite some time until now the "pastors" wife is harrassing my wife and calling our home. I got the call from his wife and like an idiot I blew up at my wife, but this lady was claiming that my wife and her husband, the "pastor" has been secretly meeting near my mother-in-laws house.

Currently my wife hates my guts because of the way I reacted to the call ie taking the lady's word as gospel. Our marriage is on the rocks and all my wife can see is anger at me and she won't take any responsibility for what happened.

I want to keep our marriage together but don't know how. I have been praying, but I need some advice on how to approach this matter. Every time I try speaking to my wife she just gets angry.