Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - Synopsis & Update on ongoing? emotional affair

HurtinginTN · 04-12-2011, 12:49 PM

If you are the account holder and have access to the online records, print the logs. You should have records of the texts, phone calls, etc. I don't have access to her online records. You may want to change the passwords if he knows them also.

Gathering information at this stage is a great idea. He will likely at some point try to convince you that they are "just friends", you're "overreacting", "paranoid", etc. The records apparently don't do much in court, but they will help you to not be snowed under as easily by a lying spouse.

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HurtinginTN Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: TN Posts: 1,178	Re: Synopsis & Update on ongoing? emotional affair If you are the account holder and have access to the online records, print the logs. You should have records of the texts, phone calls, etc. I don't have access to her online records. You may want to change the passwords if he knows them also. Gathering information at this stage is a great idea. He will likely at some point try to convince you that they are "just friends", you're "overreacting", "paranoid", etc. The records apparently don't do much in court, but they will help you to not be snowed under as easily by a lying spouse.