 Re: Sex and weight
who's weight gain are we talking about here? yours or your spouse? i see everyone presumed you were talking about your spouse and not yourself. I used to weigh #130lbs more than i do now, and i can honestly say that we did not have sex as much as we do now... not because my husband didn't want to, but because I didn't want to. I didn't feel sexy or attractive, even thought he always thought I was super sexy...and now that i am 135# he can't keep his hands off of me, the difference is that now I feel sexy enough to let him man handle me a little lol. I wouldnt stop having sex with my husband, but to be perfectly honest if he were to gain a large amount of weight, it would affect my attraction to him. i was 180lbs when i met my husband at 5ft 3.. and after my daughter i reached 240, then i lost it and went down to 190, then i had my son, and gained back plus more and reached my heaviest of #260...I have lost all of that weight and maintain my weight at 130 now. My husband who is 6ft 3 is steadily between 230 and 250.. If he were to go much beyond that it would affect my attraction to him for sure, but i would encourage him to come exercise with me or go for walks or change the food that we are eating.... I think if he got over 300lbs it would start to affect my view of him because i would be worried about his health...and i would also be worried as to WHY he gained so much weight, as many people know weight gain, unless due to inability to exercise due to a physical problem, is usually a result of something emotional (stress, depression, guilt etc) so I would talk with him and try to figure it out
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