 Re: was blindsided
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Originally Posted by tkdan  I truly do want to be able to forgive her. I feel bad about having to address it because it has caused her a lot of pain because of the guilt involved. I'm not going to lose it this is one reason I asked to do it at the counselors office to keep it under control. | good thought. i think the main value of a counselor is to provide a safe haven for things to be said. just make sure you don't use it to "throw bombs." that can be damaging. still think through whatever reaction you may have.
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separated, honoring wife and family daily, she deserves the best me i can give her.
4 kids g18, g12, g11, b7
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