| | Re: was blindsided
Originally Posted by tkdan
I truly do want to be able to forgive her. I feel bad about having to address it because it has caused her a lot of pain because of the guilt involved. I'm not going to lose it this is one reason I asked to do it at the counselors office to keep it under control.
good thought. i think the main value of a counselor is to provide a safe haven for things to be said. just make sure you don't use it to "throw bombs." that can be damaging. still think through whatever reaction you may have.
separated, honoring wife and family daily, she deserves the best me i can give her.
4 kids g18, g12, g11, b7