Re: Trying desperately to cope
My wife has always been in good health but I had a friend in a similar situation. There may be several ways to solve the issue without "cheating".
One way is ask her if she'd talk dirty to you while you handle yourself.
Also this came up on a different forum too. I heard one thing that I didn't agree with but I will share with you. The husband was unable and confined to bed so he gave permission for his wife to have a partner for those "needs". Again this is something they had agreed upon together. Like I said I don't agree with this one but I want to give you every option you can have.
Be faithful, in the end you will feel better about yourself. By the sounds of it your wife would have stuck by your side. I know that what you are dealing with is hard. The best thing you can do is communicate with her and brain storm some ideas you both feel comfortable with.
draconis
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