| | Re: Considering allowing my husband to have sex outside the marriage
I can see both sides of this, She hasn't indicated that she is willing to work with him on this either. I do not believe in going outside the marriage. I would rather end one if necessary. My advice would be to offer 3x a week and make an effort to be more involved in the process. 95% of the married men out there would love this frequency. But anything other than her would be out of the question.
As a man their is a physical but also emotional attachment to sex. The physical part is easy and most could take care of themselves. Going outside the marriage will lead to a loss of emotional connection for him and will damage the marriage.