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Old 04-16-2011, 06:02 PM   #16 (permalink)
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Default Re: It's the kind of pain

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Originally Posted by RWB View Post
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It's called ownership. Sin (infidelity) is a personal decision. Until, until an individual excepts the personal responsibility for their own actions and refutes the plurality it is still denial at the core level. My wife arrived at this junction on her own. It is a personal journey. Whether your husband ever excepts this reality for his actions is the paramount event of your marriage.
He may someday accept the personal responsibility of his wrongs but he is so arrogant that rather than try to make amends for his wrongs, he would rather walk away.
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