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Old 12-06-2007, 10:25 PM   #10 (permalink)
evenow
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Default Re: Talking problems with fiance

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How do I get him to see what he is doing?
I really wanted to respond to this. You can't make a person see or do anything they don't want to. It doesn't matter how true, visible or important a situation is, sometimes people see things as they need to and not as they are.

This may be hard but you need to stop calling him. He knows you called. He's avoiding you. If/When he deigns to talk to you he'll call.

He's probably mad that you keep standing up for yourself. Talking about issues and not ignoring them. Not accepting the blame from things that aren't your fault.

Do you really want to be with someone that will treat you like this when you have done NOTHING to deserve it?
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