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If she says she wants to be with me forever and loves me more than anyone she's ever been with, then why would she act otherwise? Is it just to get me to stick around?
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My opinion, yes. If she loves you more than anyone else she's ever been with, I pity the other guys. If someone loves you they don't ignore your feelings and hang around with other people that make you angry. They don't act secretive when you want to know things about their life. They try to alleviate your stress and worry--NOT cause it!
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I don't like the way guys talk to her because I know how guys are. I've been the guy in the bar talking to the girls telling them "Don't worry about your boyfriend..." So I know what they are thinking.
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Girls aren't as naive and innocent as you seem to think. When a guy says "don't worry about your boyfriend" there is no woman on the planet that thinks "oh I think he wants to go to my place to play tea-party."
I'm going to be honest with you. Some girls crave male attention. They like people being attracted to them and reject the idea of a man just wanting sex for it's own sake because that would mean the girl herself was not special. I wonder if she rejects the idea that guys are only after one thing because it slightly bruises her ego (oh they're not like that usually--just when they're around
me). And of course she's mad at you! You make things difficult by asking all these questions and she's probably sick of making up stuff to tell you.
You do deserve better than this. When you date someone that actually loves you and puts you first you're going to wonder why you didn't get out of this relationship sooner.